Insidious Comments

So I'm pissed because the husband threw out one of his "insidious" comments yesterday. I hate it when he does that. It bothers me because it's the second one in a week.

Last week, as I'm going off to bed he throws out "I guess you're not going to lock up, so I'll have to do it". I was pissed! I spun around and said, "if you're asking me to lock up the house then come out and ask me! The reason I don't lock up the house when I go to bed is because I go to bed earlier than you do (sometime between 8 and 9 pm) and sometimes you don't bring your sorry ass to bed until around 11. If you want me to lock up early, then just say so, otherwise, it's the responsibility of the last one in bed!" and stomped off to bed.

Last night he threw something out about watering the plants...he can never come out and just ask, he makes it sound like I'm such a fucking loser that I never do anything around the house and it's such a burden for me. So at the moment, we're not speaking much. I'm still heated about it and I'm not going to stand for these kinds of comments much more. It's like a knife in the back thing. I like to fight fair and head on. If I have a problem with you, I'm gonna come out and say it...not pussyfoot around. Ah well....and this too shall pass.