A Stunningly Beautiful Blustery Day!!!

It's raining and windy. The scent in the air is crisp, clean and wonderful.  I've made cauliflower steaks and they're on the grill outside.  So everytime I set foot outside I get to smell the air and feel the coolness. Yes, the cauliflower steaks are a bit of an experiment, but I think it'll be kind of fun.  My home is pretty clean, toasty warm and comfortable.

I'm dressed in comfy stretchies and a pullover top.  The fireplace is going and I've got the next week off for Thanksgiving.  How lucky can one girl be?  Yes, it would be nice if I was sharing this moment with true love, but then...in a way I am.  I'm having a love affair with myself.  Well, it's just starting out...again...but....

Yeah, I've got lots of faults and stuff, but there's a lot to appreciate about myself.  I need to remember the great things about myself and sometimes I forget to do that.  I focus on the bad and obsess about the wrong things and have to remind myself that there are good things about me.  Do you know what I mean?  The bottom line is, how can I expect someone to love me, if I don't love myself?

It's funny how the majority of people will say that selfishness is a bad thing.  However, I believe that there can be a healthy selfishness.  A persons intimate knowledge of themselves and a self love will keep them alert and looking out for themselves.  It gives them a sense of self-preservation so they'll know when something is bad for them and know when to walk away.  If you think you're not worth the best, then you'll always be settling for less, for less then you are truly worth.

I've been thinking a lot lately. And while I won't make some of those thoughts privy to my blog, I will say that the steps I've been taking are good ones.  The thoughts are solid and I will kick ass and take names on my future...and no one is going to stop me!